Much of the work we do for our kids, whether as parents or as siblings or as detached aficionados of the adorable, involves fiction. We tell children stories, about dragons and princes and mischievous monsters. We inform them of the doings of Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy. We create worlds meant to inspire them and soothe them and delight them and protect them.
Usually, we do this work on our own, individually: at bedtime, at storytime, with toys and dolls and movies. We don't normally get residents of the real world to help us create our story worlds. The fictionalization of childhood is something that plays out, in general, at the level of the family. The parent. The teacher.
Except when it doesn't. Except when the fiction involves a massive, verging-on-city-wide effort—to inspire a kid, and soothe him, and delight him, and protect him. Sometimes, the fiction plays out along the lines of a network.
I mention this because of Batkid. In everyday life—the life that can be all too nonfictional—the Batkid is named Miles. He is 5 years old. He lives, with his family, near San Francisco. He has been battling leukemia since he was nearly 2. He is, and hopefully will remain, in remission.
Another thing about Miles: He loves Batman. Which led his parents to write to the Make-A-Wish foundation, asking it to help them perpetrate, for and on behalf of their son, the ultimate fiction. They wanted Patricia Wilson, head of the foundation in the Bay Area, to make Miles a Batkid. They wanted him to spend a day saving San Francisco.
We can do that, Wilson thought, and she began putting the call out to volunteers to help turn San Francisco into Gotham City for a day for the boy from Tulelake (Siskiyou County).
What happened next was both understandable and wonderfully surprising: The foundation was flooded with offers of help—so many that Wilson found herself having to turn volunteers away. A local guy offered his Lamborghini to become a Batmobile. A local woman offered to be a "damsel in distress." The police cooperated. So did local merchants. So did the local paper. The foundation's initial request for help, the San Francisco Chronicle puts it, "might as well have been a worldwide Bat-Signal."
Word of the foundation's efforts spread quickly on social media, and soon what started as a small effort to make a 5-year-old boy a hero for the day turned into a citywide extravaganza, with support and volunteers coming in from all over.
As a result, today, the streets of San Francisco are flooded with well-wishers who want to play a tiny, and also incredibly large, role in a young boy's life. The city most obviously associated with our most idealistic impulses toward communication and connection and "making the world suck less" has come together, IRL, to give a kid his wish. And the rest of us are watching the heartwarming/weep-worthy results, via live video feeds, via YouTube videos, via still images, via tweets. We're all, in our way, helping to tell Miles a story he'll remember for the rest of his life.
But we're doing it with the help of technology. We're doing it, by extension, with the help of each other. For today's success, the Chronicle puts it, "Wilson credited the spirit of tech-savvy San Francisco, whose residents took to the idea immediately and began spreading word through social media."
Absolute hero #SFBatkid pic.twitter.com/UBNQ4zyEQ4
— Max Willcocks (@MaxWillcocks) November 15, 2013
Photo: @SFWish: Here he comes!!!! #SFBatkid pic.twitter.com/1oEgexVj3I... http://t.co/l8WKSpDv2E
— janelle noble (@mkdmnsr) November 15, 2013
“@BuzzFeed: The city of San Francisco and Make-A-Wish teamed up to turn SF into Gotham City #SFBatKid pic.twitter.com/gsCNry0qlX
— Crystal (@LadyInDaStreet1) November 15, 2013
This is so heart opening! RT @CoryCole "San Fran is reviving my faith in humanity today. Following #SFBatKid #BatKid pic.twitter.com/bwXIH8foYD"
— Nikita Gearing (@NikitaGearing) November 15, 2013
RT @VAWSE: Sippin my coffee knowing the streets of SF safe thanks to #SFBatkid http://t.co/CzgzbTFfhQ
— ( . Y . ) (@HoodCertified) November 15, 2013
Fantastic RT @NewsBreaker: BAT KID SAVES THE CITY: @Jamesco captured this magic moment "You did it #SFBatKid!" pic.twitter.com/nJbRIUbb1N
— Jerk Nowitzki™ (@ikeepsit_1hunid) November 15, 2013
Best day ever. RT @passantino The best day. #SFBatKid (via @AP) pic.twitter.com/ezXTD7mYXU
— Laura Molinari (@LauraAMolinari) November 15, 2013
Incredible. “@Dustinpenner25: Well done @SFWish This is one of the greatest things I've ever seen #SFBatKid pic.twitter.com/hbHnvt2Iu7”
— Kyra White (@sleepyeepee) November 15, 2013
What aheartwarming story! RT @SFWish: Here comes the #SFBatkid to stop the robber!!!! pic.twitter.com/8FQPYP1FM0
— Central City Fndtion (@CentralCityFndt) November 15, 2013
We're cheering on #SFBatKid from NYC. Save Lou Seal! pic.twitter.com/uZcoinEBdC
— Finnerty's (@Finnertys) November 15, 2013
#SFBatKid stopping a bank robbery (with THOUDANDS of onlookers! Well done, @MakeAWish and SF! pic.twitter.com/LxGpWEyH10 (via @KyleBonagura)”
— SJCsouthpaw (@SJCsouthpaw) November 15, 2013
RT @tee_witter: seriously, #SanFrancisco you're the best city in the world. pic.twitter.com/hGbIYPItqT #SFBatKid
— Jelena Dejanovic (@jelenadejanov) November 15, 2013
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